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I'm Mary Eve, a sociologist, writer and long time researcher on happiness, do what you love and consciousness.
My mission is to help thousands of people on the do what you love path, so I share on this website my top tips and tools on being what you love, doing what you love and being aware, in the form of blog articles, ebooks, books and others services.
Here are different paths at your journey's crossroad:
1. Read below for the welcome section made into a starting guide;
2. Jump already onto the main part of the website, the blog, to read all the articles and review products and services: http://behappyanddowhatyoulove.com/blog.
3. Get your free gifts now, including a 42-page ebook on surprising do what you love and happiness facts: http://behappyanddowhatyoulove.com/blog/free-ezine-ecourse-ebook/
A 3-Step Starting Guide for Your Do What You Love Journey
Step 1: Be What You Love!
To be happy and what you love, is it overrated?
Do people care about being happy or the pursuit of happiness too much?
Do we still need to talk about being happier in our days?
7 Keys to Be What We Love in Your Life
Key 1 - So, Who Needs to Be Happy Nowadays?
Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.”
Studies and common sense show that people aren’t that really happy nowadays. Since the beginning of data collection in the last century, general happiness hasn’t changed much in industrialized societies. People are… half happy.
Half of us are generally happy and satisfied. But with the living conditions that improved, we could have thought that happiness leves would be better - most of us could be very happy since our basic needs can be satisfied and most dreams accomplished.
However, the numbers that showed people were very happy or not happy tend to merge in the middle, where general happiness is. Half of the people in our days and age are becoming somewhat happy.
I think we each need to ask ourselves, is it satisfying for me to be barely happy? Or am I even happy now?
If this answer is yes, are you ok that people around you aren’t that much happier? Should the world be happier?
I always sensed that we could and should be happier. Since a young age I’ve tried and studied different ways to help people being happier, as myselfIt’s a passion of mine and I now have tools to show you how too.
As a part of this online community on the Do What You Love Journey Website, you’ll be armed with tools to help both your happiness and the one of people around you, even around the world.
To be happy no matter what…
Key 2 - What Is Being Happy?
For our general purpose, let’s say it’s being generally satisfied, optimist and joyous about our life. Being happy has different levels, up to being blissful, which is living in a state of grace and gratefulness for having the opportunity to be right here and now.
Being happy is associated with being in the flow of the moment. When we enjoy the now, it’s an eternal blissful moment.
Ways to be happy are also linked to the answer of our basic needs as specified by renowned psychologist, Abraham Maslow. We need to answer:
- Physiological needs, like having quality food;
- Security needs, like having a basic shelter;
- Belonging needs, like having a family and a community;
- Self-esteem needs, like being proud of who you are;
- Self-actualization, like searching to accomplish your potential;
- Self-transcendence (going farther than yourself, added by another expert later), like helping others.
If you neglect some of those needs, you could be less happy.
Some myths on happiness are holding in our era, like having always more money would ever increase our happiness. It has been proven to be not really appropriate past a basic income.
In fact, you could improve noticeably your happiness with positive practices, like being kind and grateful, close relationships and resolving your problems.
Key 3 - When Be Happy?
Being in the now is important to be happy. You have to enjoy what you are doing.
But it has also been shown that you need some change through time. What made you happy could not make you happy now, and what makes you happy now could not interest you in the future.
So to be happy, you’re better focusing right now on what makes you happy, keeping in mind your dreams and what is tempting you, then follow a plan to get there.
What will make you happy could change, but at least when you’re not happy in the now you could have already entered in you life another aspect that could make you happy.
Key 4 - Can You Be Happy Everywhere?
Be happy wherever you are is a challenge. But a possible and not that hard one.
What I say is that we always have a choice. We can choose to react to bad circumstances by being delightfully… unhappy. Or we could live our anger, than evolve quickly and see what they brings us, what positive side they have, and build on it.
Being happy no matter what in the long run could make you a better life. Happy people live longer, have a better health and have much more advantages.
Being happy no matter what doesn’t mean to be overenthusiastic, although my personal belief after taking a hard look on it is that All is Well and what you give your attention to manifests…
It is the deepest side of happiness I talk about, because I go down the rabbit hole on happily living on Earth with this site unlike many other sites, more on that later.
The website is full of resources to help you right now with your needs. You will come across many articles on happiness and plenty of products. Also, if you subscribe you will receive regular updates, scoops, freebies and facts on happiness, as well as doing what you love. Right away you would have free reports to help you with that. I also offer coaching services.
Key 5 - Why Choose This Happy Website?
I’ve already explained why it’s great to make the choice to be happy.
So why pick this website for your main resource on happiness? Because for one, it’s easy to navigate on and find handful of resources for your self-improvement. There are plenty of articles, ebooks, ecourses and products to discover.
Second, I’m an expert on the topic, being a sociologist, happiness researcher and author, and I care to say things as they are and are uncovered. I also share my happiness ups and downs stories witch is interesting- all to help you.
Also, I truly care about your happiness and I hope it shows. My mission is to help ten of thousands people that want this help to be happier. I also put attention to stay-up to date with happiness findings.
Key 6 - How to Be Happy Now, No Matter What, for Good?
Take with you the expert and age-old wisdom on happiness on this website. It will transform slowly your world for the better (and please let us commentaries and testimonials at the moment it does, I’m always grateful to know how I helped people).
Key 7 - Other points on happiness
The happiness subject is thoroughly researched on this site. But after all, what is happiness in a broader way? Is being happy eternal?
Recent scientific discoveries found that our universe has two sides. Energy, one, is displayed in the apparent world, second, like a coded pattern that projects a hologram. That could mean that if your energy is positive and happy, you could project a happy reality.
Old wisdom and spirituality tell something survives death, and in eternity All is Well. So our real way of being is really being blissful. They also say that you manifest, bring what you give your attention too.
So our happiness could reinvent our world, and drama and negativity could be an invented reality… It gives food for thoughts, more on that to be discussed on the blog. But the point is if you’re really curious and want to have fun discovering happiness, being happy no matter what, maybe for eternity, stay tuned!
Now, about doing what You love…
Step 2: Do What You Love!
Do what you love… aren’t they magnetic words?
They resonate deep down at our core; we all want to do what we love to do for life, right?
Since doing what you love has a broad sense, let us define it further.
6 Keys to Do What You Love
Key 1 -Who Should Do What He Loves?
Everyone should do what he loves. However, studies show it isn’t the case and about half of us are doing what we really like or love.
This website is for all of you.
If you don’t love what you do at all, be it at work or in your life in general, this was created for you. I was one of you. I liked what I did but I didn’t live for it. I wanted a more complete life with extra freedom and passion. I achieved it and I share my top tips and knowledge with you here.
If you already do what you love to do or when you will have taken the jump, there are tools to improve it on the website, like how to be more secure, less dependant of one company, and have multiple careers that you love for example.
Key 2 - What Is Doing What You Love?
Doing what we love to do for life is understood mainly in the work sense, happiness and loving what you do at your job, because most of us spend the majority of our time there.
But it is also good doing what you love in general. If doing what you love implies having enough money so each year you can do a 3 months trip, this website is the place to be, where you can learn how to have a passive income or enough income to really do what you love.
If you already have a dream career and enough money and time to do what you love, you will find out how to have the most out of your life too and discover new areas of passion.
You see what makes this website different is that it contains TOP information that are totally dedicated to the broad sense of doing what you love. It brings expertise, knowledge and wisdom together to make you have an epic Do What You Love journey. I want to help you have more freedom, happiness and other resources to do what you love, starting now, for life.
For me, doing what I love to do implies working part-time at a career I love, writing to help people doing what they love, being happy and more aware, and raising my two young boys, being there for them for real. Making enough money and passive income to afford freedom and realizing my dreams.
Now, what is it for you? Read on the blog to have tools to do it. And feel free to send me a topic suggestion on what you would love to read (at JLIB_HTML_CLOAKING ).
Key 3 - When Do What You Love?
Since there is such a need to do what we love, to love what you do, why not start already?
Sincerely, I saw this train and I asked myself: “Do I want to be one of the people that will look at it passing, wondering how much fun it would be, dreaming about it but taking no action to do what I love? Or do I want to jump on it, even with the insecurities but that make life thrilling, and FINALLY DO WHAT I REALLY LOVE?”
I chose to do what I love and love what I do. And I saw that when we’re really motivated, we do what we have to make it work.
You can adapt your project to ensure you have enough income, time or freedom. For example, if I didn’t love to be doing what I do now and I wasn’t paid enough - writing this blog, information products/books and coaching, I could be writing for others as a ghost writer, a blogger or selling blogs and making money for it.
At the moment of reading these lines, decide if you want to jump in the Do What You Love Train. If your heart is pounding faster with passion, make a pact with yourself, right now, that you will do your best to do what you love from this point on. You could do so by keeping a moment each day (getting up early in the morning is best for a lot of people) to “work” on doing what you love, do what you want, for the rest of your life.
Key 4 - Where Do What You Love
For your work, nowadays you really have the choice. You could arrange your job so you go from liking it to loving it. You could even work from home so you escape traffic and disruptions, having more time for yourself, your activities, your family and your friends.
Since we should always do what we love, we have to bring this I’ll Do What I Love attitude with us everywhere we go and at home. So you can start by improving already with simple changes what you do everyday to do what you really love in your life. Let go of the rest, responsibly.
Key 5 - Why Do What You Love to Do
When you start to do what you love and love what you do for life, it’s addicting! I’m a “do what I love junkie” now more than ever, for sure.
You get plenty of energy – first off, you want to get up early in the morning. I love getting up before everybody in the house and fusing with my keyboard taking out ideas of the untold field and put it nicely on the screen. It fulfills my needs, for example my self-actualization, artistic and helping others needs. And then when the day goes on I love being with my families doing fun activities.
So doing what you love your needs are fulfilled too.
You feel more complete.
You want others to be as happy as you and do what they love too.
In turn, you inspire others to do what they love and raise happiness levels.
Do what you love to do for life is important. It should be something that we are taught early on… Unfortunately, early on we conform to what is supposing making others happy and preparing for a job we should do.
On this website, you’ll have this real teaching. You will have fun to learn, or relearn since you could have known what you love to do when you were young, how to do what you love.
Key 6 - How Do What You Love to Do for the Rest of Your Life?
Starting from now, since you must have done your Do What I Love Pact, use each day to do tasks in the morning to get where you want to be with your life. Block it already in your Live calendar and set your alarm clock. Also, through out the day, make improvement in your life to do what you love.
To guide you through all that, read the related topic on the blog, get your free information in your mailbox and visit the product page. It is worth it to invest in your Do What You Love for the Rest of Your Life training, like everything else important.
Step 3: Change Your World, Change The World
Now, how changing your world, being happy and doing what you love to do for the rest of your life, will change the world?
Studies have found that happy people are more prone to help others, be generous, love life and more. I feel doing what you love have the same effects.
Raising your overall happiness and improving what you do will change your own medium world around.
3 Keys to Change Your World, Change The World
Key 1 - You Change Your World, They Change Their World
When you act on improving your life with happiness and doing what you love, in turn, you help others to do so too. Indirectly, you inspire them. It has a ripple effect that touches everyone around you. I observed it in my surrounding, suddenly, everyone is happier and willing to do what they love.
Key 2 - You Change Your World, You Change The World Around
But directly, since happiness and doing what you love is important, you know that it’s important for others too. You don’t want to hurt theirs so you figure out ways that are respectful to be happy and do what you love.
Also, you can even use what you do, and that is one of the secrets of getting paid to do what you love, to fulfill needs others have.
Key 3 - Be the Change You Wish to See in the World
It is a wise saying by Gandhi, because when you change yourself, your world, you really change the world.
His example showed us grandly. By his personal stands, he changed his own country and the way we act in ours.
With simple acts, you change your world, then the world around. One of the first things I changed in my life was becoming a vegetarian because it made me happy to save animal lives. I estimate I have saved hundreds of lives already. Also, doing what I love and encouraging others to do so, I have helped other people to do so, which in turn makes this world a better place to be.
Thank You for Letting Me Help You Change Your World, Change The World
In the end, I’m genuinely there to help you. I did change my world for the best and I can show you how to do it too. If this page helped you and you want my offer, thank you for subscribing to the free newsletter and bonuses, and read on further:
Don’t Forget to:
- Have a reminder to do what you love daily (quote, post-it, sticky note, poster);
- Book time in your calendar each day to do what you love;
- Set your alarm clock if needed to do your Do What I Love project(s) first thing in the morning;
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